My husband still talk to his ex-wife

Hello Wafritalk,I actually meets you on Facebook and am happy to share my problems.
     Am tinu from epe Lagos Nigeria,my husband and his first wife (Yetunde)not real name,Married for 2years,they had no kids,but now she love to call him 10 to 20 times a day.they text and talk overnight on phone,she live in another state and they don't see each other.I guess she's still single,it pinches me a lot,I know there is nothing going on.but I have found mystery getting irritated at him when ever they communicate.please Africans I need your opinion,ideas and let share experience on this issue.
Thanks.
Tinu

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Ghanian: My husband cries All day,Africa talk and opinions

Good day Wafritalk,my name is Christiana,Am based in Ghana with my husband.
   My husband and i  dated for 6month before getting married and I never noticed anything,until last month when he started crazy crying over a wall photo overnight,I can't identify the person the frame but I guess they know each other somewhere else,I asked him why he don't sleep overnight looking and weeping over a picture of a lady.He won't respond until he stop on his own.I am tired because it has been becoming rampant.I tried to tell his family but he begs me not to.fellow Africans!!what is wrong in my home,I need matured and experienced ideas please.
Thanks
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olamide badoo painting town red with latest Album "The glory "

Dopest Rapper Olamide has released his 6th studio album “THE GLORY”.  The album droped on the 26th of December same day as his OLIC3 concert. Fans are already hyped about the news from the comments on Olamide’s Instagram page. Olamide album contains  15 songs and 1 bonus single album features the likes of ‘Wande Coal, Phyno, Burna Boy, So Sick, Akuchi and YBNL’s new rapper Davolee’. 

sultan rejected equality Bill

According to BBC Nigeria's most senior Muslim cleric has rejected a new gender equality bill, which proposes that women and men inherit an equal share.

The Sultan of Sokoto, Mohamed Sa'ad Abubakar, said Muslims would not accept the violation of Islamic law guaranteeing men a greater share.

Nigeria's main Christian body has welcomed the bill, saying its religion permitted equal inheritance.

Activists have pushed for the bill to end discrimination against women.

Nigeria is a deeply religious society with roughly the same number of Christians and Muslims.

Speaking at a Koranic recitation ceremony in northern Zamfara state, the sultan said: "Our religion is our total way of life. Therefore, we will not accept any move to change what Allah permitted us to do."

He added: "Islam is a peaceful religion; we have been living peacefully with Christians and followers of other religions in this country. Therefore, we should be allowed to perform our religion effectively."

IIn October, the Christian Association of Nigeria (CAN) said it did not find anything wrong with the bill because in "Christianity inheritance is shared equally between male and female".

Lawmakers say they will consider public opinion before a decision is taken on which aspects of the bill to approve and which aspects to reject.

In March, Nigeria's senate rejected an earlier version of the bill, saying it was incompatible with Nigerian culture and religious beliefs.

Boko haram and law agencies break our dreams-Nigerian Youth

      Youth with broken dream 

  At orile,punch correspondent encountered some students of konduga college who had escaped when their school was burnt down by deadly boom haram insurgents.

    One them namely Barika Philemon.eighteen years old from gwoza local government Area of borno state say he came to Lagos in 2015.

 Barika recall how was studying his NCE when boko haram attack,burnt down the college containing over 3000 students."they came to our school on fire and killed many of the students.(4pm)they came and open fire on us,i ran from konduga on foot to maiduguri wearing only boxers,I ran for good six hours (4pm-10pm)"

   A student of business education ambition was to became an accountant and work in bank when he turns a keke napep ridder in Lagos,he said.

  " I have gotten a keke on hire purchase and the owner say if I will pay him 850,000.I have rendered one month return.if I finish paying the money the keke become mine and I will further more my education.

    Philemon says it might be difficult for him to make this money as most of his daily earnings are spent on settling fines imposed for offenses,ranging from wrong parking to other infrastructions.

     I have not been Ableto save 10000 in the last one month,fuel is also  expensive and keke is not mine.I don't have permanent accommodation."I use to beg some security guard at filling station or companies along Apapa-oshodi exp way to allow me sleep till day break.by 4am before people are up,I will leave the place to avoid putting security guard in trouble.

  At least 20 of my school mate died in the attack"for yusuf,a student of Bama college of education,the provost of his school had instructed them to vacate the school when they heard insurgents are attacking school in the neighbouring communities.

  "I ran to Cameroon without any personal belongings. No cars was moving at the time.we trekked for 10 hours and when we got there,we stayed in the camp for one year.they fed us with guinea corn and sometime beg for money from passerby.

     We later found vehicle comming to Nigeria and that how I reached Lagos,I am driving keke but I can't make enough money because I keep spending money on fines.I have spent over 150000 on fines.

      We try to avoid these fines but passengers will also harass us and insisted on dropping wherever they want and law enforcement agency will be following us,the moment we drop the person,we will be arrested"

    Yusuf ambition was to became a teacher.I need to go back to school, adding,I have no person to help me because i don't even have money to feed myself"

    Some of these young men concerns is how to reunite with there families who are also destitute in Cameroon.one says we are also doing this business to gather money.we intended to go to Cameroon to give our stranded parents and siblings some money,then come back here and continue hustling. 

Swanseacity sack manager Bradley

Swansea City sacked manager Bob Bradley on Tuesday less than three months after the American took charge, with the January transfer window looming and the Premier League's second-bottom club desperate to get out of relegation trouble.

Swansea were thrashed 4-1 at home by West Ham United on Monday and stand level on 12 points with basement side Hull City after 18 games, four points adrift of the safety zone.

"We are sorry to lose Bob after such a short period of time," said Swansea chairman Huw Jenkins. "Unfortunately things haven't worked out as planned and we felt we had to make the change with half the Premier League season remaining.

"With the club going through such a tough time, we have to try and find the answers to get ourselves out of trouble."

Bradley, 58, saw his Swansea side pick up just two wins and two draws in his 11 games in charge, during which they conceded 29 goals, after he replaced Francesco Guidolin on October 3.

"I knew exactly what I was getting into when I came to Swansea and realised the hardest part was always going to be getting points in the short run," Bradley was quoted as saying on the Twitter feed of Sky Sports presenter Jim White.

"But I believe in myself and I believe in going for it.

"That's what I've always told my players. Football can be cruel and to have a chance, you have to be strong.

"I wish Swansea the best and look forward to my next challenge."

Former Manchester United and Wales winger Ryan Giggs is the early favourite for the job among the bookmakers, followed by Wales manager Chris Coleman, who used to play for Swansea.

Swansea's first team coaches Paul Williams and Alan Curtis will take charge while the club start looking for a replacement just days before the opening of the January transfer window.

American businessmen Jason Levien and Steve Kaplan brought a controlling stake in the Welsh club in June and Bradley was appointed after the sacking of Italian Guidolin, who had joined in January to replace ex-Swansea player Garry Monk.

Former US national team coach Bradley became the first American to manage a Premier League club when he left French club Le Havre to take over at Swansea.

Having worked in American club football as well as in Norway and France, Bradley arrived with a wealth of experience but he was unable to turn the Welsh club's fortunes around.

how to give a cool massage

 here's how to give him a terrific massage:

According to bride.

1. Invest in the right product: Bare hands and dry skin? Sorry, this just won't due. Just like a massage therapist wouldn't attempt this at the spa, you're going to need a bottle of good lotion, but preferably an unscented massage oil (trust us, it's likely anything too scented or floral might turn him off). You won't need a ton, but the secret to a great massage is lubrication, so keep the bottle handy. And if it's lotion you're using, don't squeeze it right on his back from the bottle (brrrr!). Warm it up in your hands first, then apply.

2. Go slow: Have your guy lie on his stomach first and use light, even pressure at first. You can always up the pressure as you go (just ask him first), but a great massage is a little like a great meal: Let it unfold over time and start with an appetizer, not the white chocolate ganache wedding cake you sampled at the bakery the other day!

3. Focus on his shoulders, avoid his bones: Most people (men included) carry their tension in the shoulders, so permission to start here and stay for a while. But, be sure to avoid applying too much pressure on bones and joints (especially in the shoulders and spine areas). Massage therapists say these are no-no zones that might just produce an "ouch" instead of an "ahhhh."

__4. Get creative with technique:__If your fingers are tiring out, use the lower portion of your hands (your palms, and the meaty area beneath your thumbs). You can also try this tried-and-true massage therapist trick: Use your arms! The inside of your forearms make great massage tools. And, it's surprising, but a tennis ball can work wonders too, and it's a great way to change things up. Just roll it on his muscles with a little firm pressure to unlock tension.

__5. Focus on his neck:__While you can massage his neck while he's lying on his stomach, a better way is to ask him to flip over on his back. Then, make a "bowl" with your hands and have him place his head inside of your hands. This way, you're sort of cradling his head (which is loving in and of itself!), but you're also creating a great position to gently move your hands up and down along his neck and into his scalp (a favorite among men).

6. Don't forget his hands and feet: He may not ask for it, but believe us, he's hoping you won't ignore his feet and hands, and it's a great way to complete your rub down. To start, weave your hand in his, and use your thumbs to knead the back of his palm and then stroke each finger with enough pressure so the muscles in his fingers get plenty of love. You can show his arms some love from here, and then finish with his feet. Just a few minutes is all you'll need to spend here, but even that will make him feel completely relaxed.

—Sarah Jio

liverpool buried stroke city

According to bbc, There was a period in the first half when Liverpool looked exposed. Simon Mignolet, again preferred in goal to Loris Karius as Klopp stuck to the team which started the derby win against Everton, should have saved Walters' close-range header.

It was a mistake which will once again open up the debate over who should be the manager's first-choice goalkeeper. But, in attack, the Reds were as quick, incisive and destructive as they have been throughout the season.

Liverpool have now scored 86 league goals in 2016 - their most in a calendar year since 1985 - and they ended the match having made a total of 20 shots, six of which were on target.

Once the impressive Lallana equalised, sweeping home from an acute angle after Glen Johnson failed to clear the danger inside his six-yard box, Liverpool were completely dominant.

And there was a sense of inevitability when Firmino, allowed to turn unchallenged in the box, scored - his low shot bouncing in off the far and then near post.

As has been the case for the majority of this season, Sadio Mane and James Milner were key cogs, with the latter's tireless runs down the left flank giving Stoke an extra worry.Stoke, now winless in four league games, caused Liverpool's defence a number of problems in the first half, with former players Peter Crouch and Joe Allen instrumental for the Potters.

Crouch, starting for the first time since August, held the ball up well while the tigerish Allen played like a man eager to prove a point to the club that sold him to Stoke for £13m in the summer. Indeed, the Welshman could have doubled the visiting team's advantage but instead forced a fine save from Mignolet.

Stoke sought to contain their opponents by attacking them and it was a ploy which worked until Liverpool levelled and Mark Hughes' men suddenly found themselves penned inside their own half as the hosts confidently sprayed the ball around.

Defensive errors contributed to Stoke's downfall. The visitors ceded possession too easily in their own half for Liverpool's third and Ryan Shawcross' clumsy pass back to goalkeeper Lee Grant allowed Sturridge a clear run through for a goal the striker described as a "gift".

Having recovered from a terrible start to the season, Stoke now find themselves in another sticky run, though there is a seven-point cushion between them and the relegation zone.